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2 Travel

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4 Death

5 Music

6 Looking Back, Ahead

7 Love & Black History

8 Women's Hist & Stories

9 Art of Expression

10 Neither Here Nor There

11 Social Injustice

12 Social Injustice II

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17 From the Streets

18 Abuse

19 Abuse Part II

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I fell in love with the One who loved me and will never leave me.


When I was three years old my mom died and alone with her were my twin
sisters who were still born. Years later at a share group setting I
shared that I felt responsible for my mom's death. How could a three
year old be responsible? Yet after saying it, I cried so deeply that I
thought my insides were going to come out. Perhaps someone may have
told me that my mom died because I was a bad girl and it stayed with
me all these years. I was free at last from this lie.

My dad married a woman with a son one-and-a-half years younger than
me, and I never felt loved by her; and my dad wasn't a close father.
Oh he took care of the provisions, but I wasn't able to talk much with
him. There was a lot of jealousy and abuse between him and her, and
after a year or so my sister (who was a few years older than me) left
home to live with our aunts. Now my older sister, as well as my mom,
had left me and I was left with an unloving stepmother and a distant
dad.

Years later I married a man who didn't love me and was unfaithful the
night before our wedding, and within a couple months after. After
sixteen years of marriage I divorced him and looked for the love I so
desperately needed; and this brought me into relationships I didn't
belong in.

In the darkness of my lonely soul hope was born when I heard of a Man
who knew all about me and loved me as I was. The love I had been
seeking came from Jesus, the Lord God Himself. Since then I have
fallen wholeheartedly in love with Him and have come to love those who
have hurt or deserted me through my life. This includes my husband,
whom I remarried fourteen years ago after being apart six years; and I
have a greater love and respect for him than ever before.

       Jesus' love changed my life.

       Sandie

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