Although this process world
We live in is forever changing,
We try to force rigidity
Through “loving” and through naming.
We shout “Betrayal!” with each change
As fear strikes in our hearts.
We label others “Deviant!”
Ignoring our own warts.
Changing? Thinking for yourself?
What right have you to choose!
I’d rather you-would-live-a-lie
Than I reveal my ruse.
For then I’d lose control of you.
Perhaps your love would die.
I’ll risk whatever harm it does
To hold you close, and I
Will lie to you until you’re blind
To all the “truth” but mine.
I’ll fill your heart with many fears,
Plant insecurities.
I’ll try to kill your self-esteem,
Your curiosity.
I’ll make accepting-my-worldview
An acid test of love.
Then maybe…you won’t DARE to be
Yourself—that unique soul—
And I’ll continue to control
Your life—I’ll reach my goal.
Unless…a tiny spark of life
Survives to set you free
And you arise—a butterfly—
And fly away from me.
